Sunday, May 18, 2008

Little Miss Energy

Some days I think C has enough energy for 10 mommies. I know she has a ton of toys, but I think we touch every toy we own at least twice a day, some toys, of course, even more than that. Her favorite words lately are "Mommy, want to play with me?" or "watch 1 show?" Even though one might think that the shows would let me have a bit of a breather, not so much. C wants Mommy to sit with her to watch her show, and interact with her throughout. I wish I knew where she gets all of it, considering she hardly eats anything. In addition to being Little Miss Energy, she's also Little Miss Fussyeater and Little Miss Iwantpantiesbutnotpotty. So, in addition to keeping up with her, I'm trying to convince her to watch fewer shows, eat a wider variety of foods (and more at a time instead of snacking all day), and use the potty. All of the challenges between the two of us just get exhausting. Speaking of eating and energy usage, I keep wondering where she gets the energy to grow like she has lately! I think it was in the course of a week, but she sprouted through a whole size of clothes. She's now up to 3T tops and 2T bottoms. I'd hoped that she'd even out for a while and be in 2T for both instead of the 2T top/18month bottoms she'd been in. No go. I'm now facing the challenge of finding shorts for her. As long as she wears a dress or tee with jeans, it's easy enough to dress her, but shorts seem to only come in sets, and she doesn't wear the same size on top as on the bottom! Frustrating. Our activities are coming to an end for the summer, so it's going to take just about all my creativity and energy to keep her occupied on a daily basis through June, July and August. I'm thankful for the child development center and child care there, as well as having good friends around with whom we can go on outings. Wish me luck. 

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timsarmywifey said...
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timsarmywifey said...

Sorry bout that -- was trying to get it all in one post!

Take a deep breath and remember it's not your job to entertain her but to raise her. Now yes I wish I would have just stopped and played with my girls more --- barbies, etc --- however, that being said she also needs to learn to help Mommy with the chores, to play by herself well (Noah doesn't do this as well as the others did for obvious reasons), and that she doesn't have to have toys to play. Drag out some boxes,spoons,etc. Make up a rubbermaid box with rice or cornmeal in it and some measuring cups and spoons and let her "cook" while you do, or let her peel carrots down to nothing,etc; let her scrap while you do -- give her a book, some glue, paper to tear and your cast off photos; have her wash a few dishes/cups while you do or help load the dishwasher.... also what I meant with the rubbermaid is make up some boxes that are only for specific times -- lacing toys; puzzles; things like that.

Take a walk daily and let her inspect the bugs(no worms please!), the trees, pick flowers to press, rocks, etc. Yes she's young but never to young to learn to pay attention to the world around her! If you really want make yourself a schedule of things to do in the morning (chores ,etc) and then a walk after naps or the playground or the pool daily. You can have a loose routine and still enjoy summer! Think of all the things women did or didn't do before daycare --- just let her be two and enjoy it.

As far as potty training -- she's still a bit young but if you really think she's ready then let her run around half naked literally! Summer is perfect for this! Most kids don't like the feeling of being wet or poopy and will learn quickly this way. If you've been using panties with rubber pants take them off and just wear the thin cotton panties. No pull ups! I purposely waited until Noah was 3 and then did this and it was a snap compared to the others!

Don't be to concerned with the mess -- it will clean up and the lessons you teach her about work, boundaries, obedience, etc are more important. And just ENJOY her before you know it she'll be the ONE graduating!

Hugs,

Holly